Most of my workouts are uneventful. Maybe someone will honk their horn as I run by, but other than that it's pretty typical to get an entire workout in without anything extraordinary occurring. However yesterday's workout was not one of them.
Sometime during the late morning, Jon and I left the apartment - him on foot, myself on wheels - and went for a 5 mile run/bike ride together. The air was slightly cool still, but it was otherwise perfect exercising weather. We made our way into town, past businesses and through quiet neighborhoods. My bike chain popped off at one point, so we stopped while Jon put it back on (covering his hands in grease in the process). About a mile from home, he took off for a quick uphill jaunt (far too steep for my bike and I to handle) and said he would be right back down.
Fifteen minutes later, he runs up behind me, coming from the opposite direction that I was expecting him, clamoring for my iPhone.
"What's going on? What took you so long?"
He went on to explain that an old woman popped her tire as he was running past, and she didn't realize it was flat yet. Jon ran up to her car while she was stopped in traffic and told her that the tire was flat. She said "Oh dear!" and pulled to the side of the road. Jon told her he would be right back and ran down the hill to the gas station. They told him that they don't offer roadside assistance (and apparently they don't offer help just for the kindness of helping, either), so he looped back around to where I was waiting.
Jon ran and I biked alongside him back to where the woman was standing by her car. She had her AAA card out but had never used it before, so Jon used my iPhone to call them with her info. We waited with her until AAA arrived. For those 30 or 40 minutes, she told us stories of her grown children and grandchildren, about her late husband, and about the various jobs she's held throughout her 90 years. She asked about our upcoming wedding and was so genuinely happy for us, despite knowing us for only 40 minutes.
Once AAA showed up and changed her tire, we told her to take it slow on the donut tire and get it changed right away. Over and over she thanked us and told us how grateful she was that we were there to help her. She wanted our names and address, but didn't have a pen, so I took her information down on my iPhone and promised to send her a card.
Up until that point (from the day before) I had been having an awful time, emotionally. A mix of homesickness and the stresses of certain aspects of adult life had me on the couch in my pajamas, crying over the phone to my mother. Jon was trying all that he could to bring me out of it, finally making me go on a bike ride with him. I'll admit, my mood was slowly getting better, but I still intended to retreat to my spot on the couch when I returned home. However, after the events that transpired, my mood was lifted. One of the things our new friend said to us before she left was how Jon and I were so blessed to have found each other. When asking about our jobs, she told us we were so blessed to not only have jobs, but to get to work together in a good field. I know people tell us these things all the time, but for some reason in that moment, sitting on a stone wall with the early afternoon sun beating down on us, it felt different. This 90 year old woman was speaking from her heart to two twenty-somethings who stopped to help her, in return giving us the only thing she could, and that was her knowledge of what's important in life. After all, when you're 90 years old, you know a thing or two about it. When speaking of her late husband, rather than focusing on the fact that he is no longer alive, she instead said she was lucky to have had him for 51 years. Even through one of the saddest things a person can experience - the death of a loved one - she was still able to remain positive and focus on the good. For me, that was enough to snap me out of whatever mood I was in and make me realize that things weren't as bad as they seemed.
I'm not a religious person, so I don't believe in divine intervention, but something made my day play out the way it did for a reason. If we hadn't been in town at the exact time that we were, we may not have met our new friend, and I may have come home and spent the rest of that gorgeous day on the couch. Instead I came home feeling hopeful and positive and had a terrific remainder to my day. Was it necessarily a life-changing event? Maybe not. But then again, perhaps it was.
I'll let you know once I'm 90.
Sometime during the late morning, Jon and I left the apartment - him on foot, myself on wheels - and went for a 5 mile run/bike ride together. The air was slightly cool still, but it was otherwise perfect exercising weather. We made our way into town, past businesses and through quiet neighborhoods. My bike chain popped off at one point, so we stopped while Jon put it back on (covering his hands in grease in the process). About a mile from home, he took off for a quick uphill jaunt (far too steep for my bike and I to handle) and said he would be right back down.
Fifteen minutes later, he runs up behind me, coming from the opposite direction that I was expecting him, clamoring for my iPhone.
"What's going on? What took you so long?"
He went on to explain that an old woman popped her tire as he was running past, and she didn't realize it was flat yet. Jon ran up to her car while she was stopped in traffic and told her that the tire was flat. She said "Oh dear!" and pulled to the side of the road. Jon told her he would be right back and ran down the hill to the gas station. They told him that they don't offer roadside assistance (and apparently they don't offer help just for the kindness of helping, either), so he looped back around to where I was waiting.
Jon ran and I biked alongside him back to where the woman was standing by her car. She had her AAA card out but had never used it before, so Jon used my iPhone to call them with her info. We waited with her until AAA arrived. For those 30 or 40 minutes, she told us stories of her grown children and grandchildren, about her late husband, and about the various jobs she's held throughout her 90 years. She asked about our upcoming wedding and was so genuinely happy for us, despite knowing us for only 40 minutes.
Once AAA showed up and changed her tire, we told her to take it slow on the donut tire and get it changed right away. Over and over she thanked us and told us how grateful she was that we were there to help her. She wanted our names and address, but didn't have a pen, so I took her information down on my iPhone and promised to send her a card.
Up until that point (from the day before) I had been having an awful time, emotionally. A mix of homesickness and the stresses of certain aspects of adult life had me on the couch in my pajamas, crying over the phone to my mother. Jon was trying all that he could to bring me out of it, finally making me go on a bike ride with him. I'll admit, my mood was slowly getting better, but I still intended to retreat to my spot on the couch when I returned home. However, after the events that transpired, my mood was lifted. One of the things our new friend said to us before she left was how Jon and I were so blessed to have found each other. When asking about our jobs, she told us we were so blessed to not only have jobs, but to get to work together in a good field. I know people tell us these things all the time, but for some reason in that moment, sitting on a stone wall with the early afternoon sun beating down on us, it felt different. This 90 year old woman was speaking from her heart to two twenty-somethings who stopped to help her, in return giving us the only thing she could, and that was her knowledge of what's important in life. After all, when you're 90 years old, you know a thing or two about it. When speaking of her late husband, rather than focusing on the fact that he is no longer alive, she instead said she was lucky to have had him for 51 years. Even through one of the saddest things a person can experience - the death of a loved one - she was still able to remain positive and focus on the good. For me, that was enough to snap me out of whatever mood I was in and make me realize that things weren't as bad as they seemed.
I'm not a religious person, so I don't believe in divine intervention, but something made my day play out the way it did for a reason. If we hadn't been in town at the exact time that we were, we may not have met our new friend, and I may have come home and spent the rest of that gorgeous day on the couch. Instead I came home feeling hopeful and positive and had a terrific remainder to my day. Was it necessarily a life-changing event? Maybe not. But then again, perhaps it was.
I'll let you know once I'm 90.